{"id":141827,"date":"2023-09-28T18:26:28","date_gmt":"2023-09-28T22:26:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/?p=141827"},"modified":"2023-09-28T18:26:28","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T22:26:28","slug":"i-wish-someone-would-have-told-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/i-wish-someone-would-have-told-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I wish someone would have told me\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#488ccb\">Amy Stack, mom to Lael and 6 other beautiful children, shares her potent words on what she wished she would have been told after receiving her daughter&#8217;s Down syndrome diagnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"958\" data-id=\"141838\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2-1024x958.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141838\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2-1024x958.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2-300x281.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2-768x719.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-pop-2.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"780\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"141839\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1-780x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141839\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1-780x1024.jpg 780w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1-229x300.jpg 229w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1-768x1008.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-4-1.jpg 1170w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-1-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"817\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"141845\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141845\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-1-1.jpg 817w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-1-1-239x300.jpg 239w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-1-1-768x963.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 817px) 100vw, 817px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I cradled my sweet baby girl, <em>falling in love with her almond-shaped eyes,<\/em> snuggling her close to my heart as I listened to the doctors, the nurses, and the therapists; as I sat surrounded by pamphlets and support group fliers; as I googled and found so much sadness\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that one day she\u2019d make me laugh a deep, belly laugh that not many can get out of me.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that we\u2019d sit and read books together and that she would have her favorites memorized with hand motions and silly voices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile is-image-fill\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1-797x1024.jpg);background-position:50% 50%\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"797\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1-797x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141837 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1-797x1024.jpg 797w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1-233x300.jpg 233w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1-768x987.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/Lael-3-1.jpg 1170w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 797px) 100vw, 797px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that she just might be a born entertainer and could command a room with a song, a microphone, a dance, or a silly face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that she\u2019d quietly sit and color and occasionally look up at her sister\u2019s page and exclaim, \u201cGood job!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that she\u2019d be the first one up the ladder and down the slide at the playground, and would make three friends on the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that she\u2019d be the one holding us one day, pulling our heads to her heart and rubbing our backs when we don\u2019t feel well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that she\u2019d give me a kiss and then say \u201cthank you,\u201d that she\u2019d play dress up like her favorite movie character, that she\u2019d do magic tricks, sing songs, say her prayers.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish someone would have told me that all this love and joy and adventure would be my everyday experience. All these things\u2026in one day. And though it\u2019s mixed<em> <\/em>with frustration, difficulty, and a lot of work, <em>every moment I get to spend with her I feel pure love<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wish I would have thrown away the pamphlets sooner and enjoyed the baby days more. I wish I would have spent my energy<em> doing less and loving more<\/em>. But we have the rest of our lives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thank you, my sweet girl, for teaching me what I have said I believed all these years: <strong>that nothing is impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-5-copy-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"824\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"141842\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-5-copy-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141842\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-5-copy-1.jpg 824w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-5-copy-1-241x300.jpg 241w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-5-copy-1-768x954.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 824px) 100vw, 824px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"141844\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141844\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/lael-dad.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-6-copy.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"774\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"141843\" src=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-6-copy.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-141843\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-6-copy.jpg 774w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-6-copy-227x300.jpg 227w, https:\/\/gigisplayhouse.org\/cleveland\/files\/2023\/09\/LAel-6-copy-768x1016.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 774px) 100vw, 774px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Amy Stack, mom to Lael and 6 other beautiful children, shares her potent words on what she wished she would have been told after receiving her daughter&#8217;s Down syndrome diagnosis. 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